How long have you been married?
- Almost a whole year. 11 months now.

Is this your first marriage?
- Yes, and my only.

Is it how you imagined it would be?
- Just that it will be just as lovely as our last 8 years together.

What would you change?
- Nothing. I’ve grown to really love him the way he is and we’ve accepted each other for our differences.

Are you married to your soulmate?
- Yes. Truly, he is my soulmate. My best friend. It’s almost weird how we found each other.

What do you argue about the most?
- His procrastination. Charming most of the time, annoying at other times.
- He also complains that I’m sometimes *too* on top of things too, though. Haha.

What do you see eye to eye on the most?
- Politics, parenting style, our guts about people, etc.

Where did you meet your spouse?
- On the internet. ;D

Where was your first date?
- Hm… I don’t remember - we had a “first weekend date” really. We went on top of the science building at UCI.

Where were you when you became engaged?
- In our home right now, in our pajamas.

Did you live together before marriage?
- Yes, for about 5 years.

What was your wedding song?
- “Answer” by Sarah McLachlan.

Who was in your wedding party?
- No one. I didn’t have a wedding party. I didn’t want to exclude any of my close friends, or have to choose.

Do you get along with the in-laws?
- Oh yes, very much so.

Whats your view on children?
- We want children. Definitely. Probably two.

Does your spouse feel the same way?
- See above.

Are you a 2 peas in a pod or an opposites attract couple?
- We’re generally two peas in a pod. Our differences are pretty minor.

Do you go out without your spouse?
- Sometimes, when it’s my friends and he doesn’t wanna tag along.

How long are you away from your spouse before you start to miss him/her?
- Omg, usually a few hours. It’s kind of pathetic. Heh.

Have you ever compared your spouse to someone you have dated in the past?
- Yes, it can’t be helped. He tops ‘em all. Gentle, intelligent, kind, compassionate, etc. etc.

Do you trust your spouse?
- Implicitly. One of the few I trust unconditionally.

Does your spouse trust you?
- Yes. I think I’m the only one he truly trusts. Well, and his mother.

How well do you know your spouse’s favorites?
- Pretty well. I’ve had many years of practice.

How well does your spouse know your favorites?
- He knows me too dang well. Heh.

Do you get along with your spouse’s friends?
- Generally — they’re his family. Hehe.

Does your spouse get along with your friends?
- Yup. I have very likable friends. ;D

Did you go on a honeymoon?
- The Mayan Riviera in Mexico! We’d love to go on one of those European cruises one day.

Do you watch the same TV shows?
- Generally, but I watch more than he does.

Can you agree on Pizza toppings?
- Most of the time, though he likes his pizzas more “colorful” than I do.

Who takes out the trash?
- He does, most of the time. Sometimes I do.

Who does laundry?
- I do most of the time, though he’s been helping out a lot lately.

Who cooks dinner?
- We both do. We take turns.

Who is the first one to wake up in the morning?
- Depends on the day.

Do you have any traditions?
- Erm.. Christmas is a good one, and acknowleding our anniversaries.

Is there anyone in your spouse’s family that you can’t stand?
- Not really. I love ‘em all.

Anyone in your spouses family you adore?
- Oh yes, all of ‘em! I specifically adore his mother and grandmother most.

Do you know your spouses passwords/pins?
- Yeah I know them.

Does your spouse know your social security number?
- He hasn’t memorized it no, but he has access pretty easily.

Do you ever nag your spouse?
- Yes, he says I do.

Do you admit wrong doing?
- Oh yes, we both do. We try to, to keep the compassion going.

Does your spouse?
- Yes. Not right away — he needs his time more than I do. Heh.

How would you grade your sex life?
- Hot. Especially when I’m not gigundo with baby.

When is the last time you or your spouse bought each other flowers?
- Mother’s Day.